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Whoa!

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They really nailed that,
didn't they?

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Wow.

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VO: 18 singles from across the
country...

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The experts did a great job.

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..met and married at first sight.

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And I think that's going
to be an extraordinary adventure.

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VO: Following their spectacular
honeymoons.

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MAN: I really like her,
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MAN: My feelings are definitely
growing stronger.

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VO: They moved in...

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Oh, it looks good.

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..to begin living together as
husband and wife

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I love this!

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MAN: Convince your husband
you're the hottest.

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Why are you the hottest?

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(BLEEP)

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One...
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Wait, he told you that?

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VO: Confessions week...

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This is why I haven't tried to
kiss you.

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..saw some bonds deepen.

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See? Done. Look at that.

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Look at that.

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But for others...

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That's just a very, very good
looking lady.

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level performance.

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..it raised more questions...

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Oh, pretty sure this is you
proposing.

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..than answers.

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Just vetted your phone better than
me by the sounds of it.

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What is the point of trusting

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if we can't actually just trust
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without looking through someone's
phone?

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Definitely raise some
question marks.

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Tonight...

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Welcome, everyone, to the
first commitment ceremony.

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..our newlyweds face the experts
as secrets...

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She firmly didn't want to do the
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..will be exposed.

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Did you have anything to hide?
One...

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What?

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I'm Tristan, this is Cassandra.

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(LAUGHTER)

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Some couples celebrate their love.

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Aw.

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Intimacy came...

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Two to four times a day, every day.
Stop it.

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(LAUGHTER)

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But other couples...

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So you cheated on her?
Um...

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..will face the hard questions.

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I ended it, I was...
Hold on, hold on.

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I'm just doing the calculations.

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Was that before or after you met us?

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You were seeing someone else while
you're talking to us?

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And then expert John...

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Let me tell you, OK?
I haven't finished talking.

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..calls out Collins.

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That's a problem.
John...

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That's a problem.

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..in one of the most heated
exchanges ever seen.

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If you decide to stay together...
You tell me.

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No, no, no.
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I'm not here to tell you what
to do...

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You're not?
I want you...

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You're not here to give me advice.

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You challenging me is deflecting
from the issue at hand here.

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Whoo!
(LAUGHS)

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It's decision day,

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and after two weeks in the
experiment,

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today our newlyweds are getting ready

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to face the experts

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and each other in the first
commitment ceremony

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of the experiment.

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After taking time to deliberate
separately,

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our brides and grooms will each
decide

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whether they want to
continue

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in their relationship or leave.

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Commitment ceremony today.
I know!

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Game on.

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Yeah.

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I think we're really good. Yeah?

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Yeah, yeah, yeah,
I think we're good.

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Yeah, I think we're great.
Yeah.

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The first commitment ceremony
gives us, as experts,

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navigate

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the complexities of the
experiment.

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How are you feeling about the
commitment ceremony?

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(EXHALES)

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I've got a truck rolling up
for the baggage.

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(THEY LAUGH)

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Tonight we will not only be
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guide and advise our couples,

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but also intervene if we can see
they are in crisis.

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I'm excited.
I'm keen as well, yeah.

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Like we're going into it in a really
good place.

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We'll offer them honest
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which they'll have to take on in
front of the group

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and be held accountable for their
actions.

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I can't wait.

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We all know me,
I'm nosey as (BLEEP)

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and I'm super excited and
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I see everything, I've got shitty
eyesight and a lazy eye,

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but I see...

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That's why 'cause you see two things
at once.

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'Cause one eye's going that way,
one eyes going that way.

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So I can see everything.

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Yeah.

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Well, how about we put like,
positive intention in,

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you know, to help us...

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I suppose, get out of our own way,

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and feel like we're both getting our
needs met.

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Well, I'm not, because I didn't put
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VO: Ahead of tonight's commitment
ceremony,

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Jack is preparing to defend his
relationship

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after an article about an
ex-girlfriend

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appeared in the press.

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Basically, I've got a
disgruntled ex.

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One...
It said.

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Go for it.

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There was talk about
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There was, like, meeting the
parents, things like that.

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So she felt like it was more
serious than it was.

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Um, it's just all out of
context.

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It's a big deal when someone
sort of says

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media,

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and then it's there for everyone
to see.

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It's got absolutely nothing to
do with who I am as a person

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or my character or, you know,

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me getting married
to Tori.

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commitment ceremony

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and the experts are going to
unpack this again.

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I'm happy to answer any
questions respectfully.

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Like, I don't want to be attacked.

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I don't deserve to be attacked.
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As my wife will tell ya.

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Damn, you're looking good.

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You look lovely.

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Tori's had a had a great
opportunity

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to be pissed off with me.

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She could have slapped me,

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slammed the door in my face,
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Very nice.

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The emotional maturity and the way
she's handled herself,

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it speaks volumes.

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And, yeah, I'm proud of her.

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Um, we're probably going to
cover

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the story obviously in the
paper. One...

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pretty unscathed.

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We have to. We're solid.
Yeah.

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There's no BS here.
No.

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There is no BS here.

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VO: As Tori and Jack put on a united
front,

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Natalie and Collins are getting
ready separately.

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At their wedding, Natalie felt

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an instant connection with
Collins.

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dreams.

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Will you be my player one to my
player two.

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What a day.

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Yeah.
What a day.

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Stand behind you.
OK.

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VO: But after an unromantic
honeymoon...

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Perfect.

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..Natalie made the bold call to
quit the experiment.

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I just wanted to come and say
goodbye.

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(COUPLES GASP)

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That's goodbye for me, too.

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Woah!

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Alright, let's say goodbye.

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VO: But hoping to see a more
authentic side to Collins,

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Natalie had a change of heart...

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COLLINS: Alright, let's go.

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..and decided to give their
relationship one more try.

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That's just a very, very good
looking lady.

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Yeah.

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Yeah, I'm proud of myself in a
way that I've...

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I'm getting there.

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You know, I felt like it was
just an easy answer.

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Tonight is huge.

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at the dinner party,

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I really want to stay to speak
to the experts

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and get their take on Collins
and I's relationship.

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I mean, I've given up so much
to be here,

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especially with the recent
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I had such high hopes for
finding love,

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but I feel like Collins
approaches me like a friend.

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He never reciprocated any sort
of affection

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or reassurance of touch or
anything,

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I ask him,

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he seems to deflect.

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I feel like he just says things

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that he thinks I want to hear.

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I'm not sure if I've seen that
authentic Collins.

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I need some kind of guidance

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on where to go from here.

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barrier

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and get Collins to bring those
walls down,

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or do I walk away from this so
early on?

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It's a hard decision.

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Greetings, gents.

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Hi.

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Welcome.
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Good to see you all.

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Grab a seat and settle in.
Hello.

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Very dapper boys.
(LAUGHTER)

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Greetings, ladies.
Hi.

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Hello, ladies. Come on in.

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Hello. Welcome.

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Settle in. Take a seat.

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commitment ceremony.

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This is a pivotal part of the
experiment.

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The commitment ceremony is where
you get

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insights about your
relationship.

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This commitment ceremony is an
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to really lay it all out on the
table.

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The good, the bad
and the uncomfortable.

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There is no hiding on this
couch.

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You have to be open and honest.

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We will not put up with people
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to be complacent and who are
wearing masks.

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This could be exactly what you
need

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to move forward in your
relationship.

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So let's get our first couple
up on the couch...

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Oh.

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(APPLAUSE)

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Honey, come on, let's go.
Let's get it over and done with.

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I'm Tristan,
this is Cassandra.

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(LAUGHTER)

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You know what they say,
first the worst, right?

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Second the best, you know.

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entrance to the couch

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I think I've ever
seen.

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We'll just get it over and done
with.

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That means I get to sit back
and watch.

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You know, like it's so much...

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You're all looking stunning,
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but not as stunning as my wife.

242
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Yeah, mate.

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John, you look good, you know?

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I do what I can, Tristan.

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That's good, that's good.

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I tried, but, like, you know.
Tristan.

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I'm just nervous.

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This is really intimidating.

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Why don't we start with you,
Tristan?

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OK.

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How are things going between the
two of you?

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Things are going really well.

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As you can see, you've done well.

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really, really well.

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Ten out of ten.

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We've had a couple of ups and downs,
mostly ups,

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which is always really, really
good.

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This has been a really hard week
for me, to be honest.

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vulnerable.

261
00:12:44,440 --> 00:12:46,640
What did you find difficult
this week?

262
00:12:46,680 --> 00:12:48,440
Me and Cass had problems

263
00:12:48,480 --> 00:12:51,120
like me making the first move to
kiss her.

264
00:12:51,160 --> 00:12:53,960
We actually only kissed each
other at the park like,

265
00:12:54,000 --> 00:12:56,200
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OK.

266
00:12:56,240 --> 00:13:00,600
And, um, I don't really like
rejection too much,

267
00:13:00,640 --> 00:13:03,000
but I'm trying to show more
affection

268
00:13:03,040 --> 00:13:04,040
because she deserves it,

269
00:13:04,080 --> 00:13:06,680
and that's one of the things
that she wants.

270
00:13:06,720 --> 00:13:07,840
Do you?
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271
00:13:07,880 --> 00:13:10,120
Yeah, OK, yeah she does,
she does, she does.

272
00:13:12,160 --> 00:13:17,440
I think that our match has
been incredible

273
00:13:17,480 --> 00:13:21,080
and I've had the best time.

274
00:13:21,120 --> 00:13:22,960
The point that we're just trying
to get past

275
00:13:23,000 --> 00:13:25,720
is this affection side.

276
00:13:25,760 --> 00:13:27,080
<font color="

277
00:13:27,120 --> 00:13:29,680
I love the cuddles kisses on the
head for no reason.

278
00:13:29,720 --> 00:13:31,800
I love everything like that.

279
00:13:31,840 --> 00:13:35,800
And I would love him to be more
confident in just

280
00:13:35,840 --> 00:13:38,560
the kisses and the touching and the
cuddling at night.

281
00:13:38,600 --> 00:13:42,360
<font color="
time for him

282
00:13:42,400 --> 00:13:44,800
because he doesn't have that
self love.

283
00:13:46,320 --> 00:13:49,560
So, Tristan, Cassandra described
you as being

284
00:13:49,600 --> 00:13:51,800
someone who struggles to love
yourself.

285
00:13:54,600 --> 00:13:55,680
Oh, I hate myself.

286
00:14:14,320 --> 00:14:16,480
<font color="
being someone

287
00:14:16,520 --> 00:14:18,360
who struggles to love yourself.

288
00:14:18,400 --> 00:14:19,960
Oh, I hate myself.

289
00:14:21,040 --> 00:14:22,440
Oh.

290
00:14:27,360 --> 00:14:28,680
I know it's annoying, eh?

291
00:14:28,720 --> 00:14:30,160
It's like me even saying
things like that.

292
00:14:30,200 --> 00:14:31,760
Like I'm aware of it,
<font color="

293
00:14:31,800 --> 00:14:33,000
and I don't know how to change
it.

294
00:14:34,200 --> 00:14:36,680
Like, it's only just been recently
since I've started experiment

295
00:14:36,720 --> 00:14:37,880
I can kind of out loud say it.

296
00:14:41,640 --> 00:14:43,720
It is really harsh wording.

297
00:14:45,440 --> 00:14:47,000
I think it's the first time
I've heard somebody

298
00:14:47,040 --> 00:14:50,040
<font color="

299
00:14:50,080 --> 00:14:52,920
and I would like to know
how long in your mind

300
00:14:52,960 --> 00:14:56,880
you've been self-describing with
hating yourself?

301
00:14:56,920 --> 00:14:58,440
Long as I can really remember.

302
00:15:02,480 --> 00:15:05,360
So just that I can have a very
clear understanding,

303
00:15:05,400 --> 00:15:07,280
what are those things?

304
00:15:07,320 --> 00:15:09,040
<font color="
things

305
00:15:09,080 --> 00:15:10,960
that you feel you hate about
yourself.

306
00:15:14,400 --> 00:15:17,240
Um, just like a lot of things.

307
00:15:17,280 --> 00:15:18,920
Like the way I look, um,

308
00:15:18,960 --> 00:15:20,640
I think I sound annoying as
well.

309
00:15:21,720 --> 00:15:23,120
I guess I don't think I do good
enough

310
00:15:23,160 --> 00:15:24,440
<font color="

311
00:15:24,480 --> 00:15:27,920
So a lack of achievement,
I guess, and things like that.

312
00:15:27,960 --> 00:15:28,960
I don't know,

313
00:15:29,000 --> 00:15:30,800
like basically just kind of like
a lot of things.

314
00:15:34,480 --> 00:15:36,960
I would like for you to now
tell me,

315
00:15:37,000 --> 00:15:39,760
what are the things you really
<font color="

316
00:15:43,840 --> 00:15:45,680
Ah, well, I don't have much of
those.

317
00:15:45,720 --> 00:15:46,840
(LAUGHS)

318
00:15:55,800 --> 00:15:57,920
Cassandra?
Yes?

319
00:15:57,960 --> 00:16:01,600
What do you really, really like
about Tristan?

320
00:16:03,400 --> 00:16:05,840
He's thoughtful.

321
00:16:07,640 --> 00:16:09,080
He's patient.

322
00:16:09,120 --> 00:16:13,600
He's generous, kind,
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323
00:16:14,760 --> 00:16:17,000
Cutest dimples. He's tall.

324
00:16:17,040 --> 00:16:19,360
He's fun to be around.

325
00:16:19,400 --> 00:16:20,880
Beautiful energy.

326
00:16:22,640 --> 00:16:25,640
Uh, there's...
I can keep going.

327
00:16:25,680 --> 00:16:28,400
He's one of a kind.

328
00:16:28,440 --> 00:16:31,680
He's one of a kind.
Mm. He is.

329
00:16:32,560 --> 00:16:34,200
Thank you.

330
00:16:35,280 --> 00:16:36,680
<font color="

331
00:16:38,160 --> 00:16:39,640
It feels obviously good,

332
00:16:39,680 --> 00:16:41,560
but it's just like the most
annoying thing about me

333
00:16:41,600 --> 00:16:44,360
is like when she says these things,
I know she means it.

334
00:16:44,400 --> 00:16:45,840
I just don't believe it in
myself.

335
00:16:47,640 --> 00:16:48,880
For you, Cass,

336
00:16:48,920 --> 00:16:50,720
<font color="
you hear

337
00:16:50,760 --> 00:16:53,200
him describe himself in this
way?

338
00:16:53,240 --> 00:16:55,760
Oh, it's so sad.

339
00:16:56,760 --> 00:16:59,480
And I've - I know it's cliche
to say,

340
00:16:59,520 --> 00:17:03,200
but I really wish he could see
himself how I see him.

341
00:17:07,000 --> 00:17:10,360
<font color="
this

342
00:17:10,400 --> 00:17:13,360
new blossoming relationship?

343
00:17:13,400 --> 00:17:15,560
It can be scary at times because
I don't know

344
00:17:15,600 --> 00:17:16,840
if I'm getting through to him.

345
00:17:18,160 --> 00:17:20,680
I feel like I'm annoying him
sometimes.

346
00:17:20,720 --> 00:17:22,720
Um, so it makes me just want
<font color="

347
00:17:23,920 --> 00:17:28,000
Because I don't want to upset him
or say something wrong.

348
00:17:30,600 --> 00:17:33,560
I think what we've heard
Cassandra say is that

349
00:17:33,600 --> 00:17:36,600
sometimes when you're showing
this self doubt,

350
00:17:36,640 --> 00:17:38,360
she starts to retreat a little.

351
00:17:40,160 --> 00:17:44,560
So it's really important that
<font color="

352
00:17:44,600 --> 00:17:47,400
and, you know, start really noticing

353
00:17:47,440 --> 00:17:50,640
when you're doing that,
and the impact on her.

354
00:17:50,680 --> 00:17:54,160
Because what we don't want here
is for this to become a pattern

355
00:17:54,200 --> 00:17:57,520
where you continue showing
self-doubt

356
00:17:57,560 --> 00:17:59,600
<font color="

357
00:17:59,640 --> 00:18:02,560
because that's going to drive
you guys apart.

358
00:18:02,600 --> 00:18:04,120
And I know you don't want to
risk that.

359
00:18:04,160 --> 00:18:05,680
I don't want to risk that.

360
00:18:05,720 --> 00:18:08,080
Maybe when those negative
comments

361
00:18:08,120 --> 00:18:09,960
come up in your own mind,

362
00:18:10,000 --> 00:18:11,120
<font color="

363
00:18:11,160 --> 00:18:13,480
for one of the things she's said to
you.

364
00:18:13,520 --> 00:18:14,720
That's a good one. I like that one.

365
00:18:14,760 --> 00:18:16,360
I'll do that one.
That one's a good one.

366
00:18:19,000 --> 00:18:21,520
Tristan, let's go to your
decision.

367
00:18:21,560 --> 00:18:23,080
Look, obviously, I wrote leave.

368
00:18:23,120 --> 00:18:24,640
(LAUGHTER)

369
00:18:24,680 --> 00:18:26,760
<font color="
I'm kidding.

370
00:18:26,800 --> 00:18:28,880
I wrote, stay, and, you're pretty.

371
00:18:33,920 --> 00:18:36,320
I wrote stay with a smiley face.
We're done.

372
00:18:36,360 --> 00:18:38,280
With a smiley face as well.

373
00:18:38,320 --> 00:18:40,040
(APPLAUSE)

374
00:18:40,080 --> 00:18:41,400
Well done, honey,
give us a kiss.

375
00:18:41,440 --> 00:18:42,680
Well done.

376
00:18:42,720 --> 00:18:44,400
<font color="
Thank you guys.

377
00:18:44,440 --> 00:18:46,240
Have a great week.

378
00:18:47,040 --> 00:18:49,640
Well done, honey.
Well done, well done.

379
00:18:49,680 --> 00:18:51,320
Well done.
Beautiful.

380
00:18:51,360 --> 00:18:53,120
Yeah, you're good.

381
00:18:53,160 --> 00:18:54,720
You're good.
You're doing this, guys.

382
00:18:54,760 --> 00:18:56,720
<font color="
This openness.

383
00:18:56,760 --> 00:18:58,280
This transparency is wonderful.

384
00:18:58,320 --> 00:19:00,160
Thank you, guys, take a seat.

385
00:19:00,200 --> 00:19:01,520
Thank you.
Thank you so much.

386
00:19:01,560 --> 00:19:03,200
Come on, let's go sit down.

387
00:19:03,240 --> 00:19:04,480
Let's go sit down.

388
00:19:04,520 --> 00:19:06,440
You guys have got this? It's fine.
<font color="

389
00:19:06,480 --> 00:19:10,200
It's not that bad.

390
00:19:10,240 --> 00:19:11,800
Oh, it's terrifying.

391
00:19:13,800 --> 00:19:15,000
I'm kidding. I'm kidding.

392
00:19:15,040 --> 00:19:16,600
Oh.
You did well. You did well.

393
00:19:16,640 --> 00:19:18,240
We did it.
Good.

394
00:19:18,280 --> 00:19:19,320
Oh, cool.

395
00:19:20,600 --> 00:19:22,720
Next up on the couch,

396
00:19:26,080 --> 00:19:27,680
<font color="

397
00:19:27,720 --> 00:19:29,040
Oh, shit.

398
00:19:31,280 --> 00:19:32,960
Go, big guy.
How youse doing.

399
00:19:33,000 --> 00:19:34,520
Hello.
Hey, you too?

400
00:19:34,560 --> 00:19:36,520
Hey.

401
00:19:36,560 --> 00:19:38,440
So fill us in.

402
00:19:38,480 --> 00:19:40,280
How has it been since the
wedding?

403
00:19:42,040 --> 00:19:44,200


404
00:19:44,240 --> 00:19:45,880
(LAUGHTER)

405
00:19:45,920 --> 00:19:49,360
You know, we're just we're we're
very different.

406
00:19:49,400 --> 00:19:51,560
Different how?

407
00:19:51,600 --> 00:19:55,400
<font color="
on a partner.

408
00:19:55,440 --> 00:19:57,160
Does he annoy you?

409
00:19:58,160 --> 00:19:59,320
Not really.

410
00:20:00,560 --> 00:20:02,800
No, I really enjoy his company.

411
00:20:04,520 --> 00:20:05,760
I really liked Tim.

412
00:20:05,800 --> 00:20:07,320
I've got a bit of a crush on
Tim.

413
00:20:07,360 --> 00:20:08,600
There's no doubt about it.

414
00:20:08,640 --> 00:20:10,120
(LAUGHTER)
WOMAN: Yeah, you do.

415
00:20:10,160 --> 00:20:12,000
<font color="

416
00:20:12,040 --> 00:20:13,440
You'd be crazy not to.

417
00:20:15,360 --> 00:20:18,480
I love taking him out and just
being a total perv.

418
00:20:20,320 --> 00:20:21,480
TIM: Oh.

419
00:20:23,040 --> 00:20:24,520
You look surprised, Timothy.

420
00:20:24,560 --> 00:20:27,200
Yeah.
You don't annoy her.

421
00:20:27,240 --> 00:20:28,320
Where's this coming from, then?

422
00:20:28,360 --> 00:20:30,440
If you don't annoy her.
One...

423
00:20:30,480 --> 00:20:33,440
Lucinda's a very touchy feely
<font color="

424
00:20:33,480 --> 00:20:34,880
I'm just not.

425
00:20:36,880 --> 00:20:39,280
I love affection, you know,
I want cuddles.

426
00:20:39,320 --> 00:20:40,320
You know...

427
00:20:40,360 --> 00:20:43,640
I love a spoon at night or
footsies in the bed, you know?

428
00:20:43,680 --> 00:20:45,160
Can we have pash-a-thons?

429
00:20:46,360 --> 00:20:49,200
Oh, yeah, girl.

430
00:20:49,240 --> 00:20:51,440
How important is that for you?

431
00:20:51,480 --> 00:20:53,400
<font color="

432
00:20:53,440 --> 00:20:55,800
You know, I've been a little
bit like Matilda, his dog.

433
00:20:55,840 --> 00:20:58,680
Like, I just want to, like,
get in there, but,

434
00:20:58,720 --> 00:21:02,160
you know, it's not his jam,
you know?

435
00:21:05,320 --> 00:21:06,960
I've always said I'm a slow
burn.

436
00:21:07,000 --> 00:21:11,680
<font color="
I'll come forward.

437
00:21:11,720 --> 00:21:14,160
But if you're always pushing me.

438
00:21:14,200 --> 00:21:17,280
Yeah, I go back the other way.

439
00:21:18,400 --> 00:21:20,080
And I suppose for me,

440
00:21:20,120 --> 00:21:24,320
that's what I'm really trying
to give grace, you know?

441
00:21:24,360 --> 00:21:27,400
That he needs lots of time and
space.

442
00:21:27,440 --> 00:21:31,320
<font color="
thrust myself upon him.

443
00:21:31,360 --> 00:21:33,400
I mean, I don't want to be
arrested here,

444
00:21:33,440 --> 00:21:36,600
like just thrusting myself on
this poor man,

445
00:21:36,640 --> 00:21:38,600
you know, when he really doesn't
want to.

446
00:21:38,640 --> 00:21:40,320
So, you know, it's a dance.

447
00:21:40,360 --> 00:21:42,160
<font color="

448
00:21:43,960 --> 00:21:45,560
Timothy.

449
00:21:47,640 --> 00:21:51,120
Here's the thing,
you've said that you're a slow burn.

450
00:21:51,160 --> 00:21:52,160
Yep.

451
00:21:52,200 --> 00:21:55,760
And that you can be a grind on
your partner.

452
00:21:55,800 --> 00:21:57,160
Yeah.

453
00:21:57,200 --> 00:21:59,600
Now if that's your mindset,
you will be.

454
00:22:00,720 --> 00:22:01,840
<font color="

455
00:22:03,160 --> 00:22:07,640
You are going to need to either
get on board and get uncomfortable,

456
00:22:09,160 --> 00:22:11,200
or essentially watch it fizzle
out.

457
00:22:14,720 --> 00:22:16,880
Alright,
let's go to the decision.

458
00:22:17,760 --> 00:22:19,000
Here we go.

459
00:22:19,040 --> 00:22:22,600
Lucinda, stay or leave?

460
00:22:22,640 --> 00:22:23,840
Absolutely stay.

461
00:22:23,880 --> 00:22:25,680
<font color="

462
00:22:25,720 --> 00:22:27,760
Timothy, you're up. Stay or leave.

463
00:22:29,560 --> 00:22:32,240
I've written stay.
(CHEERS)

464
00:22:32,280 --> 00:22:34,080
Excellent choice.

465
00:22:34,120 --> 00:22:36,680
Yeah, Lucinda's very
happy about that.

466
00:22:36,720 --> 00:22:40,000
I am, I'm not ready to let you go.

467
00:22:41,680 --> 00:22:42,920
OK.

468
00:22:45,080 --> 00:22:46,440
("OOHS" FROM THE COUPLES)

469
00:22:48,360 --> 00:22:49,600
Good on you, guys.
Have a great week.

470
00:22:49,640 --> 00:22:50,800
<font color="

471
00:22:50,840 --> 00:22:52,400
Well done.
Good work, guys.

472
00:23:02,000 --> 00:23:04,640
Let's get our next couple up,

473
00:23:04,680 --> 00:23:06,080
Tori and Jack.

474
00:23:14,000 --> 00:23:15,600
Well, hello, you two.
Hello.

475
00:23:19,760 --> 00:23:21,160
Alright, you two.

476
00:23:21,200 --> 00:23:23,320
I have to cut straight to it.

477
00:23:23,360 --> 00:23:24,400
The dinner party.

478
00:23:24,440 --> 00:23:27,960
<font color="
that related to

479
00:23:28,000 --> 00:23:29,320
you particularly, Jack.

480
00:23:31,760 --> 00:23:33,480
About an ex-girlfriend on the
outside.

481
00:23:35,720 --> 00:23:37,360
Yep.

482
00:23:37,400 --> 00:23:40,680
I want to hear your thoughts
on that.

483
00:23:50,600 --> 00:23:53,440
Firstly, again, I'm sorry,

484
00:23:53,480 --> 00:23:55,000
<font color="
out.

485
00:24:01,040 --> 00:24:03,840
Basically the girl I was with,

486
00:24:03,880 --> 00:24:06,440
very passionate and I could tell

487
00:24:06,480 --> 00:24:08,000
she was looking for long game.

488
00:24:09,760 --> 00:24:12,240
I ended that relationship as
respectfully as I could.

489
00:24:17,000 --> 00:24:18,160
How long ago?

490
00:24:20,120 --> 00:24:22,120
Six, seven weeks, probably
<font color="

491
00:24:22,160 --> 00:24:24,280
Sorry I've been in there a
little while.

492
00:24:25,200 --> 00:24:26,920
So it's probably
seven, eight weeks.

493
00:24:28,040 --> 00:24:29,280
Or eight or nine.

494
00:24:29,320 --> 00:24:33,560
Um, I ended it, I...
Hold on, hold on.

495
00:24:33,600 --> 00:24:34,920
I'm just doing the calculations.

496
00:24:34,960 --> 00:24:36,760
Was that before or after you
<font color="

497
00:24:44,200 --> 00:24:45,520
You do the calculations.

498
00:24:50,320 --> 00:24:53,080
Because I'm sitting here thinking,
are you doing assessments

499
00:24:53,120 --> 00:24:55,200
with us while seeing somebody
else?

500
00:24:56,640 --> 00:24:59,800
Yeah, I guess, yeah,
I could have been, yes.

501
00:24:59,840 --> 00:25:03,000
If that's the fact, yes. Um...

502
00:25:03,040 --> 00:25:05,680
<font color="

503
00:25:05,720 --> 00:25:08,240
you were seeing someone else while
you're talking to us.

504
00:25:14,840 --> 00:25:15,960
Yes.

505
00:25:32,520 --> 00:25:34,280


506
00:25:38,840 --> 00:25:42,520
To be clear, Jack, you were
seeing someone else

507
00:25:42,560 --> 00:25:43,800
while you're talking to us.

508
00:25:48,640 --> 00:25:49,640
Yes.

509
00:25:53,960 --> 00:25:55,200
So let me be clear...

510
00:25:55,240 --> 00:25:56,440
<font color="

511
00:25:57,960 --> 00:26:03,440
with someone else while applying
for Married at First Sight.

512
00:26:06,280 --> 00:26:08,080
Yes.

513
00:26:14,320 --> 00:26:16,280
Let me give that finish in
context.

514
00:26:17,600 --> 00:26:18,720
It wasn't serious.

515
00:26:18,760 --> 00:26:21,000
It was a weekend friends with
benefits relationship.

516
00:26:21,040 --> 00:26:23,080
<font color="

517
00:26:23,120 --> 00:26:26,000
It's a disgruntled ex that I had a
casual relationship with.

518
00:26:34,720 --> 00:26:37,920
Tori, has it left you with any
questions about Jack?

519
00:26:39,960 --> 00:26:41,000
No.

520
00:26:41,040 --> 00:26:42,440
Your level of trust in him.

521
00:26:45,040 --> 00:26:46,720
No, nothing.

522
00:26:47,920 --> 00:26:50,400
What he was doing the morning
<font color="

523
00:26:50,440 --> 00:26:51,880
is my concern.

524
00:26:54,080 --> 00:26:56,680
What he was doing the night
before,

525
00:26:56,720 --> 00:26:59,200
and before that,

526
00:26:59,240 --> 00:27:02,520
I, um, to be brutally honest,
couldn't give a (BLEEP).

527
00:27:04,680 --> 00:27:06,520


528
00:27:09,960 --> 00:27:13,080
Tori, you do seem a little
defensive about this.

529
00:27:13,120 --> 00:27:15,200
<font color="
it.

530
00:27:15,240 --> 00:27:18,680
We are going to have bigger fish to
fry in this experiment,

531
00:27:18,720 --> 00:27:23,120
and I'm not going to use all my
energy

532
00:27:23,160 --> 00:27:25,200
on a disgruntled ex.

533
00:27:33,480 --> 00:27:34,880
I've actually -

534
00:27:34,920 --> 00:27:38,320
I grew fonder of Tori through this
<font color="

535
00:27:38,360 --> 00:27:40,880
because that's how she's
answered

536
00:27:40,920 --> 00:27:42,280
and responded all of this.

537
00:27:46,160 --> 00:27:49,640
Jack, was Tori the one
that you were hoping for?

538
00:27:51,000 --> 00:27:53,280
Yeah, I think...

539
00:27:54,840 --> 00:27:58,720
there's always going to be the
challenge of finding someone for me

540
00:27:58,760 --> 00:28:00,360
<font color="
traditional.

541
00:28:00,400 --> 00:28:04,280
I like to lead,
and I like to provide and,

542
00:28:04,320 --> 00:28:05,640
you know, be the man.

543
00:28:07,080 --> 00:28:08,440
But it's happened naturally.

544
00:28:08,480 --> 00:28:10,840
I haven't had to force anything
is Tori.

545
00:28:10,880 --> 00:28:12,480
No.

546
00:28:13,840 --> 00:28:16,240
And with the way that your body
language is,

547
00:28:16,280 --> 00:28:20,240
I would assume that sex is a big part
of this relationship,

548
00:28:20,280 --> 00:28:22,040
and I'm wondering if that's
the case.

549
00:28:22,080 --> 00:28:24,920
Go for it.
Um...

550
00:28:29,400 --> 00:28:32,840
We haven't been intimate yet.
OK.

551
00:28:34,040 --> 00:28:36,400
So is it you setting these rules,

552
00:28:36,440 --> 00:28:39,840
or is it something that you have come
to together?

553
00:28:39,880 --> 00:28:42,920
We've definitely had this
discussion a few times.

554
00:28:42,960 --> 00:28:44,160
Yes.

555
00:28:44,200 --> 00:28:46,880
I'm a connection guy.

556
00:28:46,920 --> 00:28:49,120
<font color="
have an instant

557
00:28:49,160 --> 00:28:51,680
sexual connection with someone,
which we've discussed.

558
00:28:51,720 --> 00:28:52,920
Mm-hm.

559
00:28:52,960 --> 00:28:55,520
That's not something I would have
expected you to say.

560
00:28:57,080 --> 00:29:01,280
You specifically because it is
an area

561
00:29:01,320 --> 00:29:03,440
that we spoke at length about

562
00:29:03,480 --> 00:29:05,320
the way you like to express
yourself.

563
00:29:05,360 --> 00:29:08,000
When you feel that sexual attraction,

564
00:29:08,040 --> 00:29:11,560
and especially with the physical
body language

565
00:29:11,600 --> 00:29:14,600
being also so comfortable and
connected.

566
00:29:14,640 --> 00:29:17,760
Um, we're not here just to have a
short term relationship

567
00:29:17,800 --> 00:29:19,840
built on lust and a sexual
connection.

568
00:29:20,800 --> 00:29:22,600
Oh, shit.

569
00:29:24,360 --> 00:29:26,720
Do you feel sexually attracted
to Tori?

570
00:29:28,280 --> 00:29:29,960
I do, I think she's gorgeous.

571
00:29:32,800 --> 00:29:35,400
But, um, the sexual spark with
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572
00:29:35,440 --> 00:29:36,800
it is a slow burn.

573
00:29:38,960 --> 00:29:40,040
Yeah.
The sex will come.

574
00:29:41,600 --> 00:29:42,800
Hold your thought?

575
00:29:44,400 --> 00:29:46,160
Timothy, what's going on?

576
00:29:46,200 --> 00:29:47,440
Tim.

577
00:29:47,480 --> 00:29:50,800
You are laughing over there,
chuckling even.

578
00:29:50,840 --> 00:29:53,720
I'm not I'm not chuckling,
<font color="

579
00:29:53,760 --> 00:29:55,960
Talk to us. What's going on.

580
00:29:56,000 --> 00:29:58,160
Tim is outrageous.

581
00:29:58,200 --> 00:29:59,320
Go on say it.

582
00:29:59,360 --> 00:30:02,400
I just - I think there's more
cracks in the room

583
00:30:02,440 --> 00:30:04,680
than everyone wants
to admit.

584
00:30:04,720 --> 00:30:07,800
Do you consider us not sleeping
together a crack?

585
00:30:09,160 --> 00:30:10,720
What are you getting at,
Timothy?

586
00:30:10,760 --> 00:30:14,280
Like, the slow burn thing
doesn't add up.

587
00:30:18,680 --> 00:30:20,080
Uh, well, actually,

588
00:30:21,560 --> 00:30:24,360
the conversation came up on the
buck's night.

589
00:30:25,720 --> 00:30:28,000
Would you sleep with your
partner on the first night?

590
00:30:28,040 --> 00:30:29,800
OK.

591
00:30:29,840 --> 00:30:31,480
Jack, you were like, no way.

592
00:30:31,520 --> 00:30:34,200
I'm going to take my time and
<font color="

593
00:30:34,240 --> 00:30:37,400
You were - I would first night.

594
00:30:40,080 --> 00:30:42,520
So you were not the slow burn guy
on the buck's night.

595
00:30:42,560 --> 00:30:44,880
OK.
I have to point that out.

596
00:30:51,440 --> 00:30:53,080
May I bring it back over here a
little bit.

597
00:30:53,120 --> 00:30:55,280
Yeah, because that's boring
<font color="

598
00:30:59,240 --> 00:31:02,120
If I'm into my girl,
this is what I'm doing.

599
00:31:02,160 --> 00:31:05,160
My arm's on her. I show her off.

600
00:31:05,200 --> 00:31:06,800
And I hold her hand and I'll
be proud.

601
00:31:06,840 --> 00:31:09,520
And I want her to do the same
with me.

602
00:31:09,560 --> 00:31:11,560
You certainly look pretty
<font color="

603
00:31:11,600 --> 00:31:12,880
Yeah.

604
00:31:17,000 --> 00:31:19,440
We're going to go to the decision.
OK.

605
00:31:19,480 --> 00:31:22,760
Uh, stay or leave,

606
00:31:22,800 --> 00:31:24,840
Tory.

607
00:31:24,880 --> 00:31:27,880
Um, this is obviously
very easy for me.

608
00:31:27,920 --> 00:31:30,120
Jack and I are getting along
great,

609
00:31:30,160 --> 00:31:33,920
<font color="
really benefit

610
00:31:33,960 --> 00:31:35,840
from this experience.

611
00:31:35,880 --> 00:31:39,640
So I've said, stay,
and a little kiss and a hug.

612
00:31:39,680 --> 00:31:41,480
Very cute.

613
00:31:41,520 --> 00:31:43,440
And for you, Jack.

614
00:31:43,480 --> 00:31:44,880
(CLEARS THROAT)

615
00:31:48,680 --> 00:31:49,880
I wrote, stay.

616
00:31:51,360 --> 00:31:53,600
Uh, great to see you.
<font color="

617
00:32:05,400 --> 00:32:09,360
I was a little bit struck,
and my feelings were

618
00:32:09,400 --> 00:32:13,880
a little bit hurt by Richard's
comment from the buck's night

619
00:32:13,920 --> 00:32:15,360
just saying that,
you now,

620
00:32:15,400 --> 00:32:18,360
Tim said he would have slept
with his bride on the first night,

621
00:32:18,400 --> 00:32:21,640
<font color="
intimate.

622
00:32:21,680 --> 00:32:25,000
It highlighted how far Tim and
I have got to go,

623
00:32:25,040 --> 00:32:28,560
because it just feels like the
slowest burn, even to get a hug.

624
00:32:29,600 --> 00:32:32,960
So yeah, I'm feeling a little
bit -

625
00:32:35,000 --> 00:32:36,840
a little bit sore.

626
00:32:38,160 --> 00:32:39,160
VO: Coming up.

627
00:32:39,200 --> 00:32:40,720
<font color="

628
00:32:40,760 --> 00:32:43,920
Natalie's shock confession...
Oh, my god.

629
00:32:43,960 --> 00:32:46,520
..leads to a fiery showdown.

630
00:32:46,560 --> 00:32:48,120
I'm sorry if we're being honest,

631
00:32:48,160 --> 00:32:49,840
I don't agree with you.

632
00:32:49,880 --> 00:32:51,160
I haven't finished talking.

633
00:32:52,880 --> 00:32:56,560
You're talking to me as though
you are an expert.

634
00:32:59,200 --> 00:33:00,920
And you need to start listening.

635
00:33:09,680 --> 00:33:13,320
So next up on the couch,
Sara and Tim.

636
00:33:13,360 --> 00:33:14,880
(CHEERS AND APPLAUSE)

637
00:33:18,640 --> 00:33:21,400
Welcome to the couch, you guys.
Hi, guys.

638
00:33:21,440 --> 00:33:23,400
How have you been?
Good.

639
00:33:23,440 --> 00:33:24,880
We've had we had, like,

640
00:33:24,920 --> 00:33:27,360
a little bit of some bumps
happen, and I was like -

641
00:33:27,400 --> 00:33:29,400
We're actually doing really well
right now,

642
00:33:29,440 --> 00:33:32,200
<font color="
roller coaster, if you will.

643
00:33:32,240 --> 00:33:34,040
OK.

644
00:33:34,080 --> 00:33:36,280
I felt like he wasn't
comfortable around me.

645
00:33:36,320 --> 00:33:38,240
I was getting this, like,
nervous energy,

646
00:33:38,280 --> 00:33:39,560
and I just kind of pulled back.

647
00:33:41,680 --> 00:33:43,560
Tim, how did that impact you?

648
00:33:45,600 --> 00:33:48,880
Um, there was like moments
<font color="

649
00:33:50,680 --> 00:33:53,000
you know we -

650
00:33:53,040 --> 00:33:54,680
First couple of days were a little
bit hard,

651
00:33:54,720 --> 00:33:59,840
I think, adjusting to the
intensity of this experiment,

652
00:33:59,880 --> 00:34:01,280
he must have felt really
rejected.

653
00:34:01,320 --> 00:34:02,880
He was like confused.

654
00:34:02,920 --> 00:34:05,160
He must have or he did.
How did you feel?

655
00:34:06,320 --> 00:34:08,480
<font color="

656
00:34:08,520 --> 00:34:10,000
I feel like it's...

657
00:34:10,040 --> 00:34:13,560
I just could see definitely she had
her walls up and I was like,

658
00:34:13,600 --> 00:34:15,560
I must have done something to give
you, like, an ick.

659
00:34:18,120 --> 00:34:20,600
Let's get into this past week.

660
00:34:20,640 --> 00:34:23,480
Uh, oh, the whole - the the...

661
00:34:23,520 --> 00:34:24,640
I thought it was a good week.

662
00:34:24,680 --> 00:34:26,600
<font color="
got a lot closer.

663
00:34:32,120 --> 00:34:36,280
I wonder, Tim, for you, what
task of this past week

664
00:34:36,320 --> 00:34:37,480
was the most
challenging?

665
00:34:39,680 --> 00:34:42,760
Um, so the first task,
which was the letter

666
00:34:42,800 --> 00:34:45,720
I spoke about my trust issues
and how,

667
00:34:45,760 --> 00:34:48,280
you know, I had been mistreated and
<font color="

668
00:34:48,320 --> 00:34:50,200
I did say that, you know,

669
00:34:50,240 --> 00:34:52,240
trust is like a big thing for
me.

670
00:34:52,280 --> 00:34:53,320
Yes.

671
00:34:53,360 --> 00:34:54,640
And then we got another task,

672
00:34:54,680 --> 00:34:56,320
which was the phone task.

673
00:34:59,160 --> 00:35:02,160
What I was like,
sort of iffy about

674
00:35:02,200 --> 00:35:04,000
was your like immediate reaction
<font color="

675
00:35:06,080 --> 00:35:09,280
Because you were like fairly
defensive about it.

676
00:35:09,320 --> 00:35:10,520
I wasn't defensive.

677
00:35:10,560 --> 00:35:13,000
Not defensive,
but like, you were like...

678
00:35:13,040 --> 00:35:14,640
Was she defensive or not?

679
00:35:17,240 --> 00:35:19,040
I want to hear
how he perceived it.

680
00:35:20,760 --> 00:35:23,080
Did you feel she was defensive?

681
00:35:23,120 --> 00:35:26,200
I think that she was -

682
00:35:26,240 --> 00:35:28,200
<font color="
the task.

683
00:35:34,680 --> 00:35:36,200
How did that make you feel?

684
00:35:38,880 --> 00:35:40,720
I don't know if I've actually
voiced this...

685
00:35:40,760 --> 00:35:42,360
You haven't, no.
..to you, yeah.

686
00:35:43,520 --> 00:35:45,880
I felt like, why -

687
00:35:45,920 --> 00:35:49,360
I was just questioning why she
was so, like -

688
00:35:49,400 --> 00:35:50,440
<font color="

689
00:35:50,480 --> 00:35:54,160
so against doing that task.

690
00:36:00,280 --> 00:36:01,680
So what are your doubts?

691
00:36:08,520 --> 00:36:09,920
I don't think I have any doubts.

692
00:36:11,600 --> 00:36:13,360
Yeah, OK, I've had enough.

693
00:36:16,920 --> 00:36:19,120
Because when I'm sitting here
listening to you, Tim,

694
00:36:19,160 --> 00:36:21,400
you're talking, but not really
getting to the point.

695
00:36:22,920 --> 00:36:26,360
<font color="
That's what it looks like.

696
00:36:26,400 --> 00:36:28,080
I think that I think that he's -

697
00:36:28,120 --> 00:36:29,120
Is that right, Tim?

698
00:36:33,800 --> 00:36:35,000
One...

699
00:36:36,080 --> 00:36:38,200
Tim, does Sara, uh,
intimidate you?

700
00:36:41,560 --> 00:36:42,840
Come on, Tim.

701
00:36:47,040 --> 00:36:49,000
Yeah, potentially, yeah.

702
00:36:54,480 --> 00:36:55,960
<font color="

703
00:36:57,800 --> 00:37:03,240
Intimidating in the fact that I feel
like if I express my emotions,

704
00:37:03,280 --> 00:37:06,040
it's not met with the least
an ear.

705
00:37:06,080 --> 00:37:08,320
Mm.
You know?

706
00:37:08,360 --> 00:37:10,200
It's just hard for a person
to, you know,

707
00:37:10,240 --> 00:37:13,400
<font color="
that thrown back at them

708
00:37:13,440 --> 00:37:15,880
and kind of like blown
up in their face.

709
00:37:20,120 --> 00:37:24,400
Sara, my observation is that
probably you do

710
00:37:24,440 --> 00:37:26,440
a lot of the talking in the
relationship.

711
00:37:28,160 --> 00:37:30,240
You have tonight, and he doesn't.

712
00:37:30,280 --> 00:37:31,840
<font color="

713
00:37:31,880 --> 00:37:34,320
Well, this is got to stop.

714
00:37:34,360 --> 00:37:38,000
You have got to listen and just
sit with his feelings

715
00:37:38,040 --> 00:37:39,080
when he brings
them up.

716
00:37:40,840 --> 00:37:42,320
So, Tim, what's the issue?

717
00:37:42,360 --> 00:37:43,600
Give it to me straight.

718
00:37:45,120 --> 00:37:47,000
You had a task,

719
00:37:47,040 --> 00:37:49,720
<font color="
like.

720
00:37:49,760 --> 00:37:51,360
Why didn't you like it?

721
00:37:51,400 --> 00:37:53,000
Yeah, I felt like she had something
to hide.

722
00:37:53,040 --> 00:37:54,240
She had something to hide?
Yeah.

723
00:37:55,720 --> 00:37:58,640
Now, did you have anything to hide?
No.

724
00:37:58,680 --> 00:38:00,560
No.

725
00:38:02,120 --> 00:38:03,960
<font color="

726
00:38:04,000 --> 00:38:05,240
Here's the phone,

727
00:38:05,280 --> 00:38:07,080
they want us to do this process,

728
00:38:07,120 --> 00:38:08,160
let's jump in.

729
00:38:09,680 --> 00:38:11,960
Sara, we're going to throw you a
lot of tasks

730
00:38:12,000 --> 00:38:14,520
and you've got to embrace this.

731
00:38:14,560 --> 00:38:17,800
You are going to be confronted
with all sorts

732
00:38:17,840 --> 00:38:19,880
<font color="
of time

733
00:38:19,920 --> 00:38:22,000
that couples have to deal with over
several years,

734
00:38:22,040 --> 00:38:24,840
and this one was particularly
around trust.

735
00:38:24,880 --> 00:38:27,520
You must roll your sleeves up
and dive in.

736
00:38:28,880 --> 00:38:30,160
Mm-hm.

737
00:38:34,240 --> 00:38:36,320
<font color="

738
00:38:36,360 --> 00:38:37,520
Stay or leave...?

739
00:38:40,000 --> 00:38:41,160
Sara?

740
00:38:43,440 --> 00:38:46,840
Well, I do see a lot of
potential in Tim and I...

741
00:38:46,880 --> 00:38:50,120
so I wrote stay with a smiley
face.

742
00:38:52,360 --> 00:38:54,720
What about you, Tim?

743
00:38:54,760 --> 00:38:56,040
Honestly same here.

744
00:38:56,080 --> 00:38:58,880
<font color="
a great ride so far,

745
00:38:58,920 --> 00:39:01,480
and I think getting to know you is
going to be a lot of fun.

746
00:39:01,520 --> 00:39:02,920
So, stay.

747
00:39:02,960 --> 00:39:04,560
(APPLAUSE)

748
00:39:06,880 --> 00:39:08,600
Alright, guys, well done.

749
00:39:08,640 --> 00:39:10,360
You just stuck in this little
pattern

750
00:39:10,400 --> 00:39:12,240
that you weren't aware of until
<font color="

751
00:39:12,280 --> 00:39:14,600
But that's what these commitment
ceremonies are all about.

752
00:39:15,480 --> 00:39:17,320
Now go away and work and doing
it different.

753
00:39:17,360 --> 00:39:20,000
Thank you.
Good luck.

754
00:39:20,040 --> 00:39:21,920
We'll see you next time.
BOTH: Thanks, guys.

755
00:39:21,960 --> 00:39:23,880
Well done.

756
00:39:28,720 --> 00:39:29,920
MAN: Well done, guys.

757
00:39:48,920 --> 00:39:50,200
(TIM EXHALES)

758
00:39:51,720 --> 00:39:53,000
VO: Next...

759
00:39:54,000 --> 00:39:56,120
So you cheated on her?

760
00:39:56,160 --> 00:39:57,240
Um...

761
00:39:57,280 --> 00:40:02,040
..Jadon's dark secret leaves the
room speechless.

762
00:40:03,760 --> 00:40:05,040
Right.

763
00:40:12,160 --> 00:40:14,320
So next up on the couch...

764
00:40:19,040 --> 00:40:20,960
Ellie and Ben.

765
00:40:21,000 --> 00:40:23,000
(APPLAUSE AND CHEERING)

766
00:40:23,040 --> 00:40:24,880
Come on, Ellie!

767
00:40:27,200 --> 00:40:28,520
Wow, it's our turn.

768
00:40:28,560 --> 00:40:30,800
Yeah. We're on.

769
00:40:30,840 --> 00:40:33,160
So how's it been?

770
00:40:33,200 --> 00:40:35,560
<font color="

771
00:40:35,600 --> 00:40:39,000
You know, we've had the little
couple of speed bumps,

772
00:40:40,840 --> 00:40:43,360
you know, but overall feeling
really good.

773
00:40:43,400 --> 00:40:46,520
And I'm so happy like,
that I matched with Ben.

774
00:40:46,560 --> 00:40:48,240
That is excellent.

775
00:40:48,280 --> 00:40:49,720
But I've heard the word speed
bump,

776
00:40:51,240 --> 00:40:53,840
so now I'm curious what the
speed bumps are about.

777
00:40:57,120 --> 00:40:58,920
<font color="

778
00:40:58,960 --> 00:41:01,720
I had family orientated
right at the top

779
00:41:01,760 --> 00:41:03,040
and then wants children.

780
00:41:05,560 --> 00:41:09,040
Ben's values, like the family
orientated and wants children,

781
00:41:09,080 --> 00:41:11,120
were, you know, a little bit lower.

782
00:41:11,160 --> 00:41:12,600
More about seven or eight?

783
00:41:15,040 --> 00:41:16,960
<font color="
that conversation,

784
00:41:17,000 --> 00:41:18,480
like, do you want kids?

785
00:41:18,520 --> 00:41:21,640


786
00:41:21,680 --> 00:41:22,920
What was the answer?

787
00:41:25,960 --> 00:41:29,400
So if you were to ask me that
question maybe ten years ago -

788
00:41:29,440 --> 00:41:30,560
Ben, do you want to have
children?

789
00:41:30,600 --> 00:41:32,520
Probably would've said no.

790
00:41:34,800 --> 00:41:38,120
But they asked you like yesterday,
it wasn't ten years ago.

791
00:41:38,160 --> 00:41:40,880
Yeah, yeah, so I've changed,
and I'm going to continue to change.

792
00:41:42,240 --> 00:41:45,320
At this point,
do you want children or not?

793
00:41:47,320 --> 00:41:50,080
If I meet someone who wants
that,

794
00:41:50,120 --> 00:41:52,040
I'm open for that to be my
journey.

795
00:42:00,920 --> 00:42:05,360
So at the moment,
like I'm not 100% certain on it.

796
00:42:07,600 --> 00:42:10,040
<font color="

797
00:42:11,040 --> 00:42:14,440
How much of a red flag is that
for you, Ellie?

798
00:42:14,480 --> 00:42:16,200
I was under the impression the
other day

799
00:42:16,240 --> 00:42:18,400
that we had, like,
discussed this,

800
00:42:18,440 --> 00:42:20,320
and then you had said,

801
00:42:20,360 --> 00:42:23,920
"Oh, you know, I do want children in
the future."

802
00:42:23,960 --> 00:42:26,960
<font color="

803
00:42:27,000 --> 00:42:30,080
he's not wanting children.

804
00:42:30,120 --> 00:42:31,600
If he doesn't want kids,

805
00:42:31,640 --> 00:42:33,200
then this isn't going to work,

806
00:42:33,240 --> 00:42:34,480
you know,
because I want a family.

807
00:42:38,760 --> 00:42:41,400
I mean, the idea is very appealing.

808
00:42:42,800 --> 00:42:46,720
Those fatherly instincts are
there within me.

809
00:42:46,760 --> 00:42:47,840
<font color="

810
00:42:50,360 --> 00:42:51,840
Do you feel reassured by that?

811
00:42:54,640 --> 00:42:56,680
Yeah, I feel like Ben is very

812
00:42:56,720 --> 00:42:59,880
genuine and he's 39 now.

813
00:42:59,920 --> 00:43:04,520
He has said, you know, he's
wants to settle down.

814
00:43:04,560 --> 00:43:05,600
I feel like, you know,

815
00:43:05,640 --> 00:43:07,360
this could grow into something
really amazing.

816
00:43:09,440 --> 00:43:11,240
I do think it's very important

817
00:43:11,280 --> 00:43:12,400
that you continue having

818
00:43:12,440 --> 00:43:14,800
the talks that you've begun
having this week.

819
00:43:14,840 --> 00:43:17,920
The idea is to have a common goal.

820
00:43:17,960 --> 00:43:19,520
Yeah.

821
00:43:21,080 --> 00:43:22,920
And we're going to go to the
decision.

822
00:43:24,760 --> 00:43:26,640
It's a big stay.

823
00:43:26,680 --> 00:43:28,680
Exclamation point.

824
00:43:31,400 --> 00:43:33,800
Ellie?
Stay with a smiley face.

825
00:43:33,840 --> 00:43:35,600
(APPLAUSE)

826
00:43:36,760 --> 00:43:38,160
Thank you so much.
ELLIE: Thank you.

827
00:43:38,200 --> 00:43:40,040
Have a great week you guys.

828
00:43:43,760 --> 00:43:45,360
ELLIE: We did it.

829
00:43:48,320 --> 00:43:50,160
<font color="

830
00:43:52,440 --> 00:43:54,120
Lauren and Jonathan.

831
00:43:54,160 --> 00:43:56,360
(CHEERS AND APPLAUSE)

832
00:43:59,400 --> 00:44:00,520
Hello, you two.

833
00:44:00,560 --> 00:44:02,160
LAUREN: Hi.
JOHNATHON: Hey. How're you doing?

834
00:44:04,320 --> 00:44:05,400
How are things going?

835
00:44:06,520 --> 00:44:07,800
You can answer it.

836
00:44:07,840 --> 00:44:09,280
Yeah, good, um...

837
00:44:10,360 --> 00:44:11,440
So...

838
00:44:11,480 --> 00:44:13,240
I thought I'd get a bit more
<font color="

839
00:44:15,360 --> 00:44:16,960
So did I.
Let's build on that.

840
00:44:17,000 --> 00:44:18,720
It's a good start.

841
00:44:20,480 --> 00:44:22,840
One thing I do notice is that
your

842
00:44:22,880 --> 00:44:24,760
body language is very
comfortable.

843
00:44:25,920 --> 00:44:28,080
So how is the physical
attraction

844
00:44:28,120 --> 00:44:30,120
and and play going?

845
00:44:30,160 --> 00:44:31,160
What's happening?

846
00:44:31,200 --> 00:44:33,040
There's definitely a physical
attraction.

847
00:44:33,080 --> 00:44:34,240
Yeah.
Is there a physical play?

848
00:44:34,280 --> 00:44:35,840
Is there sexual play?

849
00:44:35,880 --> 00:44:37,600
I mean, we...

850
00:44:37,640 --> 00:44:40,000
<font color="

851
00:44:42,040 --> 00:44:43,880
I can confirm that we have.

852
00:44:46,560 --> 00:44:48,640
Was this early on in the
relationship?

853
00:44:50,800 --> 00:44:53,320
I mean, it was the second the
doors closed

854
00:44:53,360 --> 00:44:54,680
and the producers left.

855
00:44:58,040 --> 00:44:59,800
This was what, wedding night?

856
00:44:59,840 --> 00:45:01,560
Yes.
Yes.

857
00:45:01,600 --> 00:45:03,600
Alright, so that chemistry
was there?

858
00:45:03,640 --> 00:45:04,720
Yeah.

859
00:45:04,760 --> 00:45:07,440
And has it continued or has
there been lulls there?

860
00:45:07,480 --> 00:45:11,480
Yeah, there have been lulls when
we are,

861
00:45:11,520 --> 00:45:13,960
like, not feeling close together.

862
00:45:14,000 --> 00:45:15,560
OK, we're not gonna get into
details.

863
00:45:15,600 --> 00:45:16,920
(LAUGHTER)

864
00:45:18,960 --> 00:45:20,440
Oh my god, I'm dying.

865
00:45:23,240 --> 00:45:26,160
MEL: So, how's the week been?

866
00:45:26,200 --> 00:45:28,560
I like deep emotional
<font color="

867
00:45:28,600 --> 00:45:32,800
I think that's how you really
get to know someone...

868
00:45:32,840 --> 00:45:35,000
I find it horrific.

869
00:45:35,040 --> 00:45:38,080
Yeah, she's not so good at it.
Stop.

870
00:45:40,320 --> 00:45:43,480
I find I struggle to talk about
my emotions

871
00:45:43,520 --> 00:45:45,720
and get deep without getting, like,
<font color="

872
00:45:45,760 --> 00:45:47,440
and making jokes and
being sarcastic.

873
00:45:47,480 --> 00:45:48,920
I feel like that's my wall.

874
00:45:48,960 --> 00:45:50,600
I know that's my toxic trait.

875
00:45:50,640 --> 00:45:52,840
And, like, I'm trying to figure out
how to work on that.

876
00:45:52,880 --> 00:45:54,600
No, it's definitely not -

877
00:45:54,640 --> 00:45:56,120
I love your sense of humour.
<font color="

878
00:45:56,160 --> 00:45:57,960
I think it's the, yeah,
I think it's the best.

879
00:45:58,000 --> 00:45:59,480
You think I'm funny?

880
00:45:59,520 --> 00:46:01,400
You know, to your credit, Johnno,

881
00:46:01,440 --> 00:46:04,440
you're taking the lead here and
you're showing that vulnerability.

882
00:46:04,480 --> 00:46:06,600
It's now your turn, Lauren...
100%.

883
00:46:06,640 --> 00:46:09,120
..you've got to step up.
I know I do, I really do.

884
00:46:09,160 --> 00:46:10,760
I'm going to try.

885
00:46:10,800 --> 00:46:11,800
<font color="

886
00:46:13,600 --> 00:46:14,720
Alright, well, with that,

887
00:46:14,760 --> 00:46:16,640
we're going to
go to the decision.

888
00:46:16,680 --> 00:46:21,440
Let's go first to Lauren.

889
00:46:21,480 --> 00:46:23,200
Stay.
Oh.

890
00:46:23,240 --> 00:46:24,640
Yes.

891
00:46:24,680 --> 00:46:26,000
And to you, Jonathan?

892
00:46:26,040 --> 00:46:28,640
I am also going to stay.

893
00:46:28,680 --> 00:46:30,560
Gave it a little kiss.
And a kiss.

894
00:46:30,600 --> 00:46:32,200
And a kiss.
(APPLAUSE)

895
00:46:34,880 --> 00:46:36,800
LAUREN: Thank you guys.
<font color="

896
00:46:36,840 --> 00:46:38,080
Well done.

897
00:46:43,160 --> 00:46:45,880
Alright, let's get our next couple
up on the couch...

898
00:46:51,120 --> 00:46:52,760
Eden and Jayden.

899
00:46:52,800 --> 00:46:54,640
(CHEERS AND APPLAUSE)

900
00:46:58,840 --> 00:47:00,560
Hello, welcome.
Hi, guys.

901
00:47:00,600 --> 00:47:02,120
Hello.
Hello.

902
00:47:02,160 --> 00:47:04,120
Hello.
Thanks for having us.

903
00:47:06,960 --> 00:47:08,520
Well, you two, uh -

904
00:47:08,560 --> 00:47:10,600
<font color="
you so far?

905
00:47:13,160 --> 00:47:14,560
Where do you want to begin?

906
00:47:14,600 --> 00:47:16,160
What was challenging over the
first two weeks?

907
00:47:16,200 --> 00:47:19,120
Because we threw plenty of
challenges at you.

908
00:47:20,320 --> 00:47:23,040
Well, um, we had the
confessions letter.

909
00:47:24,960 --> 00:47:26,760
<font color="
challenge.

910
00:47:26,800 --> 00:47:29,240
I think probably for both of us.
OK.

911
00:47:29,280 --> 00:47:32,600
That was probably the one moment in
our marriage so far that we've...

912
00:47:32,640 --> 00:47:34,840
Yeah.
..struggled a bit with.

913
00:47:34,880 --> 00:47:36,760
OK, so lay it out for us.

914
00:47:36,800 --> 00:47:38,520
<font color="

915
00:47:41,080 --> 00:47:43,000
It's basically a story about
how I had an

916
00:47:43,040 --> 00:47:45,000
ex cheat on me many, many
times.

917
00:47:46,880 --> 00:47:47,920
One...

918
00:47:47,960 --> 00:47:49,120
and behind my back.

919
00:47:52,320 --> 00:47:55,720
After finding out about what my
ex-partner did,

920
00:47:55,760 --> 00:47:58,120
I basically just thought I would

921
00:47:58,160 --> 00:47:59,760
<font color="

922
00:48:03,960 --> 00:48:05,360
So you cheated on her?

923
00:48:12,720 --> 00:48:15,520
What my ex-partner did is,
you know,

924
00:48:15,560 --> 00:48:19,120
something that hurt me a lot.

925
00:48:19,160 --> 00:48:21,440
So when she wanted another chance,

926
00:48:21,480 --> 00:48:23,240
I basically said to her,

927
00:48:23,280 --> 00:48:24,400
OK, I'll give you another chance,

928
00:48:24,440 --> 00:48:27,280
<font color="
thing back to you...

929
00:48:29,600 --> 00:48:31,640
I'm going to sleep with someone.

930
00:48:33,840 --> 00:48:35,080
A friend.

931
00:48:48,320 --> 00:48:49,560
Right.

932
00:49:00,720 --> 00:49:04,280
So just to be clear,
you got back together with your ex...

933
00:49:04,320 --> 00:49:05,320
Mm-hm.

934
00:49:05,360 --> 00:49:07,200
But part of the condition of
getting back together

935
00:49:07,240 --> 00:49:09,400
was you slept with someone else.

936
00:49:11,480 --> 00:49:13,120
A friend.

937
00:49:20,800 --> 00:49:22,480
OK.

938
00:49:26,000 --> 00:49:30,160
Why do you think that was the choice
that you made at that time?

939
00:49:30,200 --> 00:49:33,520
Probably because I felt so
betrayed.

940
00:49:33,560 --> 00:49:38,120
So was the intention there
for her to experience pain,

941
00:49:38,160 --> 00:49:40,080
just like you had?
Yeah.

942
00:49:41,400 --> 00:49:43,440
All I could see was what's happening
to me now,

943
00:49:43,480 --> 00:49:45,240
I'm in a lot of pain,
I'm in a lot of hurt,

944
00:49:45,280 --> 00:49:47,600
<font color="
I need to do something stupid.

945
00:49:47,640 --> 00:49:49,840
And that's exactly what I did,
but I shouldn't have.

946
00:49:51,280 --> 00:49:53,480
It wasn't until looking back
on it,

947
00:49:53,520 --> 00:49:54,600
talking about it with Eden,

948
00:49:54,640 --> 00:49:56,880
it made me realise it was the
wrong thing to do.

949
00:49:58,760 --> 00:50:00,080
So, just to be clear...

950
00:50:01,840 --> 00:50:04,160
with you sitting here right now,

951
00:50:04,200 --> 00:50:06,920
do you feel that you do regret
this?

952
00:50:07,920 --> 00:50:09,880
100%, I regret it.
You do regret that?

953
00:50:12,800 --> 00:50:14,240
It was absolutely the wrong
thing.

954
00:50:16,040 --> 00:50:17,240
I was in a dark place,

955
00:50:17,280 --> 00:50:20,280
it was a decision I made purely
based on emotion.

956
00:50:20,320 --> 00:50:22,520
I became a bad person.

957
00:50:22,560 --> 00:50:25,000
Yeah, you can see that now?
Mm.

958
00:50:29,080 --> 00:50:31,480
You know, I've got to say,
Jayden,

959
00:50:31,520 --> 00:50:33,840
I've met you, we've talked,

960
00:50:33,880 --> 00:50:35,640
what I'm seeing here tonight is

961
00:50:35,680 --> 00:50:37,800
not the guy that I got to know.

962
00:50:39,280 --> 00:50:42,400
This story is shocking,

963
00:50:43,880 --> 00:50:48,880
and unacceptable and toxic.

964
00:50:48,920 --> 00:50:52,680
<font color="
you are.

965
00:50:52,720 --> 00:50:54,440
What must be made clear,

966
00:50:54,480 --> 00:50:56,240
particularly from the experts,

967
00:50:56,280 --> 00:50:58,880
is that that behaviour in a
relationship

968
00:50:58,920 --> 00:51:01,120
is totally unacceptable.

969
00:51:03,640 --> 00:51:06,800
So, Eden, what does that make
you think

970
00:51:06,840 --> 00:51:08,320
<font color="

971
00:51:13,400 --> 00:51:14,520
I would just be worried that -

972
00:51:14,560 --> 00:51:16,880
I'm not perfect,
and I'm going to do things wrong.

973
00:51:16,920 --> 00:51:20,320
You know, how will he react when I
do do something wrong?

974
00:51:24,200 --> 00:51:26,920
That is very destabilising in a
relationship,

975
00:51:26,960 --> 00:51:29,440
<font color="
past,

976
00:51:29,480 --> 00:51:31,840
it's natural for your partner
to start thinking,

977
00:51:31,880 --> 00:51:33,880
could this ever happen again?

978
00:51:33,920 --> 00:51:35,080
And I can understand that.

979
00:51:37,080 --> 00:51:39,640
So, Eden, what do you need from
Jayden

980
00:51:39,680 --> 00:51:42,160
to reassure you moving forward?

981
00:51:42,200 --> 00:51:45,240
<font color="
try and get a handle

982
00:51:45,280 --> 00:51:47,200
on his emotions and
reactions,

983
00:51:47,240 --> 00:51:49,520
so that he can think with a
little bit more logic,

984
00:51:49,560 --> 00:51:52,560
rather than thinking with just -

985
00:51:52,600 --> 00:51:54,600
with emotions and reacting in that
way.

986
00:51:54,640 --> 00:51:55,920
JOHN: <font color="

987
00:51:55,960 --> 00:51:59,400
the way you've handled it and the
way you've listened,

988
00:51:59,440 --> 00:52:04,120
tried to understand and then
move forward with Jayden

989
00:52:04,160 --> 00:52:06,280
has been really
commendable.

990
00:52:06,320 --> 00:52:07,360
Thank you.

991
00:52:08,720 --> 00:52:10,680
We should go to the decision.

992
00:52:10,720 --> 00:52:13,040
<font color="

993
00:52:13,080 --> 00:52:14,680
I came to the experiment for one
thing,

994
00:52:14,720 --> 00:52:16,120
and that's to find the right
person for me.

995
00:52:16,160 --> 00:52:18,760
And I believe that is what I got,

996
00:52:18,800 --> 00:52:21,080
so, um, we're staying.

997
00:52:22,760 --> 00:52:24,960
Eden, what are you gonna do,
stay or leave?

998
00:52:26,000 --> 00:52:27,960
<font color="
did,

999
00:52:28,000 --> 00:52:30,040
and Jayden knows I don't agree
with it,

1000
00:52:30,080 --> 00:52:31,960
but I haven't given Jayden the
chance

1001
00:52:32,000 --> 00:52:33,560
to try and improve from it yet,

1002
00:52:33,600 --> 00:52:35,160
and I'm willing to give him that
chance.

1003
00:52:36,920 --> 00:52:38,520
<font color="

1004
00:52:42,720 --> 00:52:45,480
This is an opportunity to turn
it around now,

1005
00:52:45,520 --> 00:52:48,280
Jayden, but you've got a lot of work
to do this week.

1006
00:52:48,320 --> 00:52:50,640
Are you up for it?
100%.

1007
00:52:50,680 --> 00:52:52,600
Alright, you can go back to the
group.

1008
00:52:52,640 --> 00:52:54,120
Thank you.
(APPLAUSE)

1009
00:53:01,880 --> 00:53:03,720
Alright, next couple on the couch...

1010
00:53:09,880 --> 00:53:11,000
Natalie and Collins.

1011
00:53:11,040 --> 00:53:12,400
(CHEERS AND APPLAUSE)

1012
00:53:22,400 --> 00:53:24,280
Hey, guys. How are ya? Pleasure.

1013
00:53:30,840 --> 00:53:33,600
Alright, well, I'm going to cut
straight to the chase.

1014
00:53:34,840 --> 00:53:37,200
The dinner party was extremely
difficult for the both of you.

1015
00:53:37,240 --> 00:53:40,240
<font color="

1016
00:53:40,280 --> 00:53:42,240
Uh, what was that decision?

1017
00:53:42,280 --> 00:53:43,640
I wanted to leave.

1018
00:53:45,520 --> 00:53:46,800
So this is confusing to me,

1019
00:53:46,840 --> 00:53:49,600
because when you first walked
into the dinner party,

1020
00:53:49,640 --> 00:53:52,040
you were holding hands,
and you were very upbeat.

1021
00:53:53,240 --> 00:53:54,480
So what changed?

1022
00:53:56,000 --> 00:53:57,480
<font color="

1023
00:53:59,480 --> 00:54:01,600
Collins and I had talked about

1024
00:54:01,640 --> 00:54:03,040
going into the dinner party,

1025
00:54:03,080 --> 00:54:06,320
and we were going to be united
front.

1026
00:54:06,360 --> 00:54:07,560
"I've got your back."

1027
00:54:07,600 --> 00:54:12,800
But then we walked in into this
big group situation

1028
00:54:12,840 --> 00:54:14,360
and immediately separated.

1029
00:54:21,040 --> 00:54:22,400
One.

1030
00:54:22,440 --> 00:54:26,440
<font color="
and,

1031
00:54:29,280 --> 00:54:33,520
my anxiety, my grief was just
starting to overtake

1032
00:54:33,560 --> 00:54:40,160
and I never thought that at a dinner
party I would feel alone.

1033
00:54:43,680 --> 00:54:46,000
So you didn't feel like you were a
united front at that point?

1034
00:54:46,040 --> 00:54:48,320
No. Not at all.

1035
00:54:48,360 --> 00:54:49,560
<font color="

1036
00:54:50,560 --> 00:54:53,240
He noted that I was being
negative and sour

1037
00:54:53,280 --> 00:54:56,520
and talking bad things about
the honeymoon,

1038
00:54:56,560 --> 00:54:59,240
so he knew I was becoming quite
upset,

1039
00:54:59,280 --> 00:55:03,360
but I had to ask him to hold my
hand to walk into the dinner party

1040
00:55:03,400 --> 00:55:04,960
<font color="
was shaking.

1041
00:55:08,000 --> 00:55:10,120
So, Collins,

1042
00:55:10,160 --> 00:55:11,440
what do you say to that?

1043
00:55:11,480 --> 00:55:14,640
It killed me to hear that during
that dinner party, she felt alone.

1044
00:55:14,680 --> 00:55:15,960
Absolutely killed me.

1045
00:55:16,000 --> 00:55:17,520
Let's get specific on this,
Collins.

1046
00:55:17,560 --> 00:55:20,840
<font color="
that, uh, you know,

1047
00:55:20,880 --> 00:55:23,520
you're, you know,
connected with her?

1048
00:55:24,720 --> 00:55:27,200
That you you want to bring her
close to you.

1049
00:55:28,760 --> 00:55:31,680
I've tried, I really have, but...
Let's hear it.

1050
00:55:37,960 --> 00:55:39,080
So...

1051
00:55:40,400 --> 00:55:41,800
Ha!

1052
00:55:41,840 --> 00:55:43,440


1053
00:55:43,480 --> 00:55:45,200
<font color="
Natalie?

1054
00:55:46,240 --> 00:55:47,560
Well, I feel...

1055
00:55:48,560 --> 00:55:49,720
Ah!

1056
00:56:00,960 --> 00:56:02,360
(COLLINS SIGHS)

1057
00:56:04,680 --> 00:56:08,880
Yeah, look, I may need to work on
those specifics.

1058
00:56:08,920 --> 00:56:10,160
I really, really do.

1059
00:56:10,200 --> 00:56:13,720
And I haven't done too much
in that.

1060
00:56:13,760 --> 00:56:16,680
<font color="
because so far,

1061
00:56:16,720 --> 00:56:18,160
since the beginning of the
experiment,

1062
00:56:18,200 --> 00:56:20,600
it has been prevalent that Nat's
grief,

1063
00:56:20,640 --> 00:56:23,480
the grief that she's feeling has
been a huge,

1064
00:56:23,520 --> 00:56:26,960
huge part of, um, this
experiment.

1065
00:56:27,000 --> 00:56:30,800
<font color="
just two or three days together

1066
00:56:30,840 --> 00:56:33,040
when she's present in
this experiment.

1067
00:56:34,280 --> 00:56:37,360
Natalie, when you've been with
Collins,

1068
00:56:37,400 --> 00:56:40,800
do you feel like you've been
present with him?

1069
00:56:42,080 --> 00:56:43,200
Yes.

1070
00:56:46,920 --> 00:56:48,720
<font color="

1071
00:56:48,760 --> 00:56:51,520
Grief aside to the best of her
ability,

1072
00:56:51,560 --> 00:56:52,960
she has been present...

1073
00:56:53,000 --> 00:56:55,480
Sorry you just said, grief aside.

1074
00:56:55,520 --> 00:56:58,520
Because I'm trying to make a
point that...

1075
00:56:58,560 --> 00:57:01,920
I'm sorry, if we're being honest,
I don't agree with you.

1076
00:57:01,960 --> 00:57:03,680


1077
00:57:08,600 --> 00:57:10,120
<font color="

1078
00:57:11,560 --> 00:57:14,720
You can't just put grief aside,
I'm sorry.

1079
00:57:14,760 --> 00:57:17,920
This is a huge, huge factor,
and -

1080
00:57:17,960 --> 00:57:21,200
No one's saying that the grief is
not playing into this.

1081
00:57:21,240 --> 00:57:23,440
You know what, John?
Let me tell you, OK, I'm...

1082
00:57:23,480 --> 00:57:25,080
<font color="

1083
00:57:35,320 --> 00:57:38,240
I'm saying she's here as a
complete package.

1084
00:57:38,280 --> 00:57:40,440
She wants a connection,

1085
00:57:40,480 --> 00:57:43,520
and you yourself sat here
tonight and said,

1086
00:57:43,560 --> 00:57:46,200
I actually can't tell you
anything that I've been doing

1087
00:57:46,240 --> 00:57:48,880
to really bring her close,

1088
00:57:48,920 --> 00:57:50,320
<font color="

1089
00:57:51,760 --> 00:57:54,760
That's your words, not mine.

1090
00:57:54,800 --> 00:57:55,840
That's a problem.

1091
00:57:57,400 --> 00:57:59,760
John, it...
That's a problem.

1092
00:58:01,960 --> 00:58:05,120
What do you think that you can
do, Collins,

1093
00:58:05,160 --> 00:58:07,440
that will bring her close and
make her feel special?

1094
00:58:07,480 --> 00:58:10,520
<font color="
I came to you for advice.

1095
00:58:10,560 --> 00:58:11,560
What should I do?

1096
00:58:15,000 --> 00:58:16,080
Just think about it.

1097
00:58:16,120 --> 00:58:18,160
If you decide to stay together...
You tell me.

1098
00:58:18,200 --> 00:58:20,400
No, no, no.
No, no, no, I'm sorry.

1099
00:58:20,440 --> 00:58:22,600
I'm not here to tell you what to do.
<font color="

1100
00:58:22,640 --> 00:58:24,000
You're not here to give me advice.

1101
00:58:34,000 --> 00:58:36,880
What do you think that you can
do, Collins,

1102
00:58:36,920 --> 00:58:39,080
that will bring her close and
make her feel special?

1103
00:58:40,600 --> 00:58:42,680
No, I'm sorry,
I came to you for advice.

1104
00:58:42,720 --> 00:58:44,360
What should I do?

1105
00:58:47,080 --> 00:58:48,160
<font color="

1106
00:58:48,200 --> 00:58:49,920
If you decide to stay together...
You tell me.

1107
00:58:49,960 --> 00:58:51,560
No, no, no.
No, no, no, I'm sorry.

1108
00:58:59,000 --> 00:59:01,560
I want to be very clear here,

1109
00:59:03,920 --> 00:59:05,880
you have never been in a
relationship

1110
00:59:05,920 --> 00:59:08,200
with anybody before. Correct?

1111
00:59:08,240 --> 00:59:09,760
<font color="
Correct.

1112
00:59:11,000 --> 00:59:14,760
You're talking to me as though
you are an expert.

1113
00:59:18,440 --> 00:59:19,920
And what I'm saying to you is,

1114
00:59:21,800 --> 00:59:24,040
you need to open your mindset

1115
00:59:24,080 --> 00:59:26,440
and you need to start listening.

1116
00:59:29,880 --> 00:59:31,040
John, if...

1117
00:59:36,080 --> 00:59:39,080
You challenging me is deflecting
from

1118
00:59:39,120 --> 00:59:42,600
<font color="
which is,

1119
00:59:42,640 --> 00:59:45,560
there's a woman that wants a
connection with you,

1120
00:59:45,600 --> 00:59:47,160
what could you do this week

1121
00:59:47,200 --> 00:59:48,880
that would make it blossom?

1122
00:59:51,160 --> 00:59:54,800
I want you to take ownership

1123
00:59:54,840 --> 00:59:56,760
and be the agent of change here.

1124
00:59:58,040 --> 00:59:59,360
(COLLINS SIGHS)

1125
01:00:03,960 --> 01:00:05,720
<font color="
Nat.

1126
01:00:05,760 --> 01:00:08,200
I would love to do things
together.

1127
01:00:08,240 --> 01:00:09,960
What sort of things?

1128
01:00:10,000 --> 01:00:11,320
Doing life together.

1129
01:00:11,360 --> 01:00:14,360
So what you're saying is
you want to move in with her?

1130
01:00:16,040 --> 01:00:17,360
From day one? Yes.

1131
01:00:22,000 --> 01:00:24,000
Now, Natalie...
<font color="

1132
01:00:24,040 --> 01:00:26,000
..Collins has said quite clearly
that

1133
01:00:26,040 --> 01:00:28,440
he wants to move in with you,

1134
01:00:28,480 --> 01:00:33,720
that he wants to really build on
what you've started.

1135
01:00:36,480 --> 01:00:37,640
How do you feel about that?

1136
01:00:49,680 --> 01:00:50,880
I don't trust him.

1137
01:00:55,880 --> 01:00:57,480


1138
01:01:06,440 --> 01:01:08,600
So can you tell us a little bit
<font color="

1139
01:01:08,640 --> 01:01:10,640
What don't you trust about this?

1140
01:01:12,360 --> 01:01:13,680
When we talk,

1141
01:01:16,200 --> 01:01:17,680
the answers he gives,

1142
01:01:20,600 --> 01:01:22,920
I know he doesn't want to hurt
me,

1143
01:01:22,960 --> 01:01:25,000
and I feel like he's just giving
me the answers

1144
01:01:25,040 --> 01:01:26,520
he thinks I want to hear.

1145
01:01:29,320 --> 01:01:31,040
<font color="
Natalie?

1146
01:01:33,200 --> 01:01:34,720
Not at the moment, no.

1147
01:01:39,000 --> 01:01:40,720
So do you feel a connection, Collins?

1148
01:01:40,760 --> 01:01:42,440
Mate, I do feel a connection.

1149
01:01:43,680 --> 01:01:45,920
Because there are those moments when
when we're on,

1150
01:01:45,960 --> 01:01:47,240
there is that connection.

1151
01:01:47,280 --> 01:01:49,000
It's fun. It's bubbly.

1152
01:01:49,040 --> 01:01:51,680
<font color="
Natalie?

1153
01:01:51,720 --> 01:01:53,160
Mate, I feel awesome.

1154
01:01:54,720 --> 01:01:55,760
She's good fun.

1155
01:01:55,800 --> 01:01:57,400
She's a top, top lady.

1156
01:01:57,440 --> 01:01:59,640
She's a heart of gold.

1157
01:01:59,680 --> 01:02:01,760
She's...she's so pure.

1158
01:02:01,800 --> 01:02:03,520
(LAUGHS)
One...

1159
01:02:07,240 --> 01:02:13,240
It sounds like you're describing
<font color="

1160
01:02:13,280 --> 01:02:14,520
(COLLINS LAUGHS)

1161
01:02:15,920 --> 01:02:16,920
A top, top lady.

1162
01:02:19,520 --> 01:02:23,640
I want you to think about her
and how you feel

1163
01:02:23,680 --> 01:02:25,600
and really get real with me.

1164
01:02:26,840 --> 01:02:29,400
My feelings are there for Nat.

1165
01:02:29,440 --> 01:02:30,640
What feelings?

1166
01:02:30,680 --> 01:02:32,960
The feelings of wanting to build
something,

1167
01:02:33,000 --> 01:02:34,880
<font color="

1168
01:02:34,920 --> 01:02:37,360
What is that feeling?

1169
01:02:37,400 --> 01:02:40,040
Those...those butterflies.

1170
01:02:40,080 --> 01:02:41,280
Those - ooh!

1171
01:02:41,320 --> 01:02:42,400
What's this feeling?

1172
01:02:42,440 --> 01:02:43,800
That's that's a little bit
different.

1173
01:02:45,560 --> 01:02:47,440
Yeah.

1174
01:02:47,480 --> 01:02:48,520
So, you're excited?

1175
01:02:48,560 --> 01:02:50,080
Mate, I'm buzzing.

1176
01:02:50,120 --> 01:02:51,920
<font color="
there.

1177
01:02:58,440 --> 01:03:00,360
So let's go to the decision.

1178
01:03:06,080 --> 01:03:09,000
Let's go with you first, Natalie.

1179
01:03:11,720 --> 01:03:16,520
When I ask questions,
I don't get answers.

1180
01:03:18,120 --> 01:03:21,280
And Collins does say that he
wants to support me,

1181
01:03:21,320 --> 01:03:23,400
and he's here for me,
<font color="

1182
01:03:24,800 --> 01:03:28,240
But the actions don't always follow
through with that.

1183
01:03:28,280 --> 01:03:30,600
And that's why I said, leave.

1184
01:03:30,640 --> 01:03:32,240
Oh.

1185
01:03:33,880 --> 01:03:35,400
OK.

1186
01:03:37,520 --> 01:03:39,520
And for you, Collins,
stay or leave.

1187
01:03:39,560 --> 01:03:40,680
What did you decide?

1188
01:03:48,680 --> 01:03:50,720
I absolutely heartbroken.

1189
01:03:53,520 --> 01:03:56,000
<font color="
hearing Nat doesn't trust me.

1190
01:03:57,080 --> 01:03:58,960
I don't know what I've done to -

1191
01:03:59,000 --> 01:04:00,640
or said to lose that trust.

1192
01:04:03,400 --> 01:04:04,960
Oh.

1193
01:04:05,000 --> 01:04:07,560
So, Collins,
what is your decision?

1194
01:04:07,600 --> 01:04:09,160
Mate, oh.

1195
01:04:09,200 --> 01:04:11,120
I'm sorry, but how can you write

1196
01:04:11,160 --> 01:04:14,520
<font color="
this experiment?

1197
01:04:14,560 --> 01:04:17,080
We haven't done life together
and see -

1198
01:04:17,120 --> 01:04:18,360
oh, my God.

1199
01:04:19,360 --> 01:04:20,840
Oh.

1200
01:04:24,520 --> 01:04:25,800
So, Collins, show me the card.

1201
01:04:25,840 --> 01:04:27,880
What did you decide to do?
Stay or leave?

1202
01:04:27,920 --> 01:04:30,120
Oh, my god.

1203
01:04:30,160 --> 01:04:31,640
<font color="

1204
01:04:31,680 --> 01:04:34,160
Either I'm thinking I'm putting
myself first

1205
01:04:34,200 --> 01:04:36,400
or I'm being selfish and I'm not
putting

1206
01:04:36,440 --> 01:04:38,160
my wife's feelings first.

1207
01:04:38,200 --> 01:04:40,280
We just want a decision.

1208
01:04:40,320 --> 01:04:41,560
Oh, my god.

1209
01:04:51,600 --> 01:04:53,760
JOHN: So, Collins, show me the card.

1210
01:04:53,800 --> 01:04:55,280
<font color="

1211
01:04:55,320 --> 01:04:57,040
Stay or leave?

1212
01:04:57,080 --> 01:04:59,080
What can I do?

1213
01:04:59,120 --> 01:05:01,960
Either I'm thinking and putting
myself first,

1214
01:05:02,000 --> 01:05:03,240
or I'm being selfish,

1215
01:05:03,280 --> 01:05:05,840
and I'm not putting my wife's
feelings first.

1216
01:05:05,880 --> 01:05:08,920
We just want a decision.
<font color="

1217
01:05:18,400 --> 01:05:20,880
I've done everything I can for
Nat,

1218
01:05:20,920 --> 01:05:26,320
but for the first time I've put
myself and what I want,

1219
01:05:26,360 --> 01:05:28,320
and I haven't given this
a proper shot,

1220
01:05:28,360 --> 01:05:32,280
which is why I wrote,
I want to stay, mate.

1221
01:05:37,360 --> 01:05:41,000
<font color="
my wife doesn't

1222
01:05:41,040 --> 01:05:44,200
want to be here and she doesn't
trust me.

1223
01:05:45,880 --> 01:05:47,040
What I'm going to say to you,

1224
01:05:47,080 --> 01:05:49,600
being the first commitment
ceremony

1225
01:05:49,640 --> 01:05:51,520
is that when one person says
stay,

1226
01:05:51,560 --> 01:05:52,800
<font color="

1227
01:05:54,800 --> 01:05:58,080
Then that couple remains in the
experiment

1228
01:05:58,120 --> 01:06:00,800
for an opportunity to turn it
around.

1229
01:06:00,840 --> 01:06:04,720
Now, we've seen it many times over
the years,

1230
01:06:04,760 --> 01:06:08,600
one week can create huge amounts
of change.

1231
01:06:08,640 --> 01:06:11,960
<font color="

1232
01:06:12,000 --> 01:06:15,120
and all you need to focus on,
the two of you,

1233
01:06:15,160 --> 01:06:19,200
is how do we build our connection
this week?

1234
01:06:24,840 --> 01:06:26,680
Alright, off you go.

1235
01:06:26,720 --> 01:06:28,680
(APPLAUSE)

1236
01:06:51,600 --> 01:06:53,200
MEL: Last couple on the couch,

1237
01:06:56,560 --> 01:06:58,480
Richard and Andrea.

1238
01:06:58,520 --> 01:07:00,200
(CHEERS AND APPLAUSE)

1239
01:07:04,480 --> 01:07:07,360
(EXPERTS AND COUPLE EXCHANGE
GREETINGS)

1240
01:07:07,400 --> 01:07:09,120
MEL: Rousing applause.

1241
01:07:09,160 --> 01:07:11,400
<font color="

1242
01:07:11,440 --> 01:07:12,640
And he's quite fancy.

1243
01:07:12,680 --> 01:07:14,240
(LAUGHTER)

1244
01:07:15,920 --> 01:07:18,720
Why don't you tell us about your
fancy husband?

1245
01:07:18,760 --> 01:07:20,920
I adore him.

1246
01:07:20,960 --> 01:07:23,360
I like his accent.

1247
01:07:23,400 --> 01:07:24,840
Yah.
Yah.

1248
01:07:24,880 --> 01:07:26,720
(LAUGHTER)

1249
01:07:29,800 --> 01:07:34,040
Um... he's hilarious, like,
we play a lot.

1250
01:07:34,080 --> 01:07:36,280
<font color="
probably more childish

1251
01:07:36,320 --> 01:07:37,920
than most of these
beautiful people here.

1252
01:07:37,960 --> 01:07:39,120
That's alright.

1253
01:07:39,160 --> 01:07:42,000
And he's sensitive and romantic,

1254
01:07:42,040 --> 01:07:43,720
and he's affectionate.

1255
01:07:43,760 --> 01:07:44,760
It's beautiful.

1256
01:07:44,800 --> 01:07:47,840
Mm, well certainly beautiful to
watch.

1257
01:07:47,880 --> 01:07:49,680
ANDREA: Yes.

1258
01:07:52,320 --> 01:07:54,520
What's it like from your side
of the fence?

1259
01:07:54,560 --> 01:07:57,520
Yeah, it feels really, really
right for both of us.

1260
01:07:57,560 --> 01:08:02,680
And it started from the moment
I first saw Andi.

1261
01:08:04,120 --> 01:08:06,240
Oh.
She has this presence.

1262
01:08:07,920 --> 01:08:10,600
And she kind of exists in this
bubble, you know.

1263
01:08:10,640 --> 01:08:12,360
<font color="

1264
01:08:12,400 --> 01:08:13,480
It's a bit mad.

1265
01:08:13,520 --> 01:08:15,080
You know, it really is.
Yes.

1266
01:08:16,480 --> 01:08:18,280
And that might really annoy some
people,

1267
01:08:18,320 --> 01:08:20,680
but to me,
I just absolutely adore it.

1268
01:08:20,720 --> 01:08:23,080
Oh, my god, my heart.

1269
01:08:24,320 --> 01:08:25,680
I'm hearing you describe her

1270
01:08:25,720 --> 01:08:28,360
and using words like,
I adore her.

1271
01:08:28,400 --> 01:08:30,760
I'm wondering how long has it
been since

1272
01:08:30,800 --> 01:08:32,880
you felt this way about a woman?

1273
01:08:32,920 --> 01:08:37,960
Oh, probably takes me back to my
20s, to be honest.

1274
01:08:38,000 --> 01:08:41,120
Oh, wow.
Wow.

1275
01:08:45,560 --> 01:08:49,000
It's beautiful to watch the
ease with which

1276
01:08:49,040 --> 01:08:52,480
you come close and just touch.

1277
01:08:52,520 --> 01:08:54,920
Tell us about that aspect.

1278
01:08:54,960 --> 01:08:58,680
<font color="
beautifully,

1279
01:08:58,720 --> 01:09:02,120
and it's very nice.

1280
01:09:03,240 --> 01:09:04,520
I... Richie.
It's full on.

1281
01:09:04,560 --> 01:09:06,680
(LAUGHTER)
ANDREA: There you go.

1282
01:09:07,920 --> 01:09:10,720
Two to four times a day.
He loves it. Stop it.

1283
01:09:10,760 --> 01:09:12,640
Every day.

1284
01:09:12,680 --> 01:09:14,200
(LAUGHTER AND CHEERING)

1285
01:09:16,720 --> 01:09:17,840
MAN: Tell us more.

1286
01:09:20,200 --> 01:09:22,440
<font color="
any doubt

1287
01:09:22,480 --> 01:09:24,520
in anybody's mind in this room,

1288
01:09:24,560 --> 01:09:27,120
what you guys are going to say
in terms of leaving or staying,

1289
01:09:27,160 --> 01:09:30,880
but we we would love to know,
officially.

1290
01:09:30,920 --> 01:09:33,800
I did a song lyric.
Oh.

1291
01:09:33,840 --> 01:09:38,440

<font color="

1292
01:09:39,840 --> 01:09:41,960
Just a little bit.
Good one, good one.

1293
01:09:42,000 --> 01:09:44,840
I wrote, stay with a big fat
smiley face,

1294
01:09:44,880 --> 01:09:49,160
and sort of like smitten eyes,
you know, "Oh, my god."

1295
01:09:49,200 --> 01:09:51,400
(LAUGHTER)

1296
01:09:53,760 --> 01:09:57,000
You seem to really be taking
the experiment on

1297
01:09:57,040 --> 01:09:59,680
<font color="
to offer,

1298
01:09:59,720 --> 01:10:02,880
and really taking the best of it
and making it work for you.

1299
01:10:04,360 --> 01:10:06,160
I'm wondering if you could, um,

1300
01:10:06,200 --> 01:10:08,160
perhaps share with the group -

1301
01:10:08,200 --> 01:10:11,080
what can you share with them that
you think might be helpful

1302
01:10:11,120 --> 01:10:12,240
<font color="

1303
01:10:16,000 --> 01:10:18,800
Look, life kind of works when

1304
01:10:18,840 --> 01:10:20,120
you choose what you've got.

1305
01:10:20,160 --> 01:10:22,320
You make a choice and you choose
something.

1306
01:10:22,360 --> 01:10:24,440
A choice is different from a
decision.

1307
01:10:24,480 --> 01:10:27,440
A decision is,
"Do I? Not this. Oh, maybe."

1308
01:10:27,480 --> 01:10:28,880
<font color="

1309
01:10:28,920 --> 01:10:30,240
A choice is a choice.

1310
01:10:30,280 --> 01:10:33,080
I choose Andy
because I choose Andy.

1311
01:10:33,120 --> 01:10:35,240
And that's what I'm committed
to,

1312
01:10:35,280 --> 01:10:37,760
and that's what I'm going for,
you know.

1313
01:10:38,800 --> 01:10:39,840
And it's as simple as that.

1314
01:10:39,880 --> 01:10:41,920
<font color="
kind of noise.

1315
01:10:43,440 --> 01:10:47,280
So that's, I think, really,
really important.

1316
01:10:47,320 --> 01:10:48,320
Strong message.

1317
01:10:49,360 --> 01:10:50,640
All got to choose to be here.

1318
01:10:55,160 --> 01:10:56,960
Thank you so much, guys.

1319
01:10:57,000 --> 01:10:59,400
Keep doing what you're doing.

1320
01:10:59,440 --> 01:11:01,200
So much joy.

1321
01:11:01,240 --> 01:11:04,720
We are truly blessed.
Yeah.

1322
01:11:04,760 --> 01:11:06,920
(BOTH MAKE BABY-TYPE VOICES)

1323
01:11:06,960 --> 01:11:09,560
With sound effects.
<font color="

1324
01:11:12,160 --> 01:11:13,600
VO: Tomorrow night.

1325
01:11:13,640 --> 01:11:15,480
Suppose we're just getting to
the crux,

1326
01:11:15,520 --> 01:11:17,800
whether you're in or out this
week.

1327
01:11:17,840 --> 01:11:20,040
I feel like I'm (BLEEP)
on the couch again.

1328
01:11:20,080 --> 01:11:22,600
Timothy loses his cool with Lucinda.

1329
01:11:22,640 --> 01:11:23,720
I'm pissed off.

1330
01:11:25,560 --> 01:11:26,600
Before...

1331
01:11:26,640 --> 01:11:28,640
MAN: <font color="

1332
01:11:28,680 --> 01:11:30,320
Come here.

1333
01:11:30,360 --> 01:11:32,400
..the next phase of the
experiment...

1334
01:11:33,800 --> 01:11:34,920
..is unveiled.

1335
01:11:34,960 --> 01:11:36,160
Yeah, we can do this.

1336
01:11:36,200 --> 01:11:38,120
VO: Where over two big nights...

1337
01:11:38,160 --> 01:11:40,240
Grab a seat. Hello.

1338
01:11:40,280 --> 01:11:43,720
..expert Alessandra helps our
newlyweds explore

1339
01:11:43,760 --> 01:11:46,200
the intimate side of married
life.

1340
01:11:46,240 --> 01:11:47,760
Bodies against each other.

1341
01:11:47,800 --> 01:11:49,440
But not all the couples...

1342
01:11:49,480 --> 01:11:50,880
<font color="

1343
01:11:50,920 --> 01:11:52,520
You give me like autopilot.

1344
01:11:52,560 --> 01:11:54,280
..will be feeling the love.

1345
01:11:54,320 --> 01:11:56,640
I'm not doing this experiment with
some serial killer who

1346
01:11:56,680 --> 01:11:58,400
has the same response to
everything.

1347
01:11:58,440 --> 01:12:00,080
As Sara and Tim...

1348
01:12:00,120 --> 01:12:01,960
That is not fair.

1349
01:12:02,000 --> 01:12:03,640
..reach breaking point.

1350
01:12:03,680 --> 01:12:05,560
<font color="
are off.

1351
01:12:05,600 --> 01:12:07,560
OK, I'm done here.

1352
01:12:08,880 --> 01:12:09,960
Before Natalie...

1353
01:12:10,000 --> 01:12:12,800
This feels like an Oscars
performance. I'm sorry.

1354
01:12:12,840 --> 01:12:15,320
..finally calls out Collins.

1355
01:12:15,360 --> 01:12:18,440
I need to take myself away,
out of this experiment.

1356
01:12:18,480 --> 01:12:21,480
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